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Spell Check

So yes, I am busy. I run a pretty large business, am a wife, mom, and grandma, and no I did not use spell check or apparently read it closely enough before posting. Good heavens folks!

Shyguy says sorry

I just talked to him and showed him the discussion. He just chuckled and told me to explain that he meant it to be a joke. That is why he spelled spelling, speeling. He has been in the chat room while Sage was in the chat room on occasion and figured she would know it was just a lighthearted joke. He says sorry. He didn't know it would cause such a fuss.

speeling

I for one knew it was a joke and anyone else did too, except for one. and that one seems to always knit pick about everything and starts an argument. I for one wish that person would stop, and just step back and take a deep breath and ask themselves if they really think its necessary to cause arguments on everything. Everyone occasionally misspells things, and a big deal should not be made about it. I hope this is the END of this.

I agree with you

But I am afraid this thread will continue until she gets the last word. I, for one, am sick of the continuous comments (negative) on this and every thread, and most likely will no longer be participating in the forums here any longer. I believe these forums could be a great place for polite discussion and the sharing of ideas, but not until someone silences the troll. I forgive her for flaming us for participating in a joke, but I will not put up with her disrespect for her fellow members on this site.

“We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love.” Robert Fulghum

Oh come on!!!!

Oh for petes sake. Look I apologised to you, ages ago. And left the thread until it was restarted just to have a dig at me. All this pathetic 'she that should not be named' idiocy is nothing more than cyber bullying.

Glass houses...meet stone!!!

WWJD????

Hypocrites!

(FWIW, this message does not apply to Apostle who was on point and is decent enough at least to directly address me and not play childish pronoun games. Thank you Apostle for being an Adult)

lol

LOL...

Speeling

Loose should actually be spelled lose. In the survey options

not in the dictionary I read.

loose ...not tight or fitting, to be a woman with low moral standards
lose..to have misplaced something, to have been defeated.

Her wedding band was loose, so she was afraid she would lose it down the drain when she washed her hands.

“We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love.” Robert Fulghum

Is speeling the same as

Is speeling the same as spelling? LOL
"In the end, People will judge you anyway.
Don't live your life impressing others.
Live your life impressing yourself."

Are you kidding me?

Is this some kind of joke that you both seem to be unable to understand 'Shyguy'?

The survey answer has either a spelling mistake or typo, loose is a word but it is the incorrect word to use in the sentence, the word is LOSE.

And he was making a point by writing Speeling...duh!

Notice the LOL? Are you

Notice the LOL? Are you kidding me? Wow you of all people of intelligence should be able to tell when something is a joke.
" In the end, People will judge you anyway.
Don't live your life impressing others.
Live your life impressing yourself."

Ok

Apostle let me explain

It doesn't matter if it was a joke, it kind of proves that you did not 'get' it by pointing it out as if it was a mistake. It was intentional, it doesn't need lampshading. Some people don't understand subtle humor, so if that is the case than that is fair.

Of course if it is unintentional than it is hilarious, but in the context it is unlikely.

I have to

Keep reminding myself that getting down on her level makes me no better than her. I don't understand the incessant need to cause problems. I have noticed a very large slump in posting on the forums since her last little explosion. I think she needs to go make trouble elsewhere.

“We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love.” Robert Fulghum

Oh please

The slump in posting had nothing to do with me. Besides Justin and the occasional personals post, there has been nothing else posted.

Apostle is nearly always reactionary unless he wants to say for the upteenth time that he is leaving (and not leave) and you haven't posted anything of value either so don't blame me for your inertia. You are not fooling anyone.

what is it to anyone if I was going to leave

or not? The only reason I didn't leave is because the delete my account button was missing but then I decided I wasn't going to let a bunch of trouble makers ruin my life or force me to leave the site. I like this site it is the only decent one out there. Not sure how I was reactionary as I was giving shyguy a bad time thinking he had accidently misspelled spelling by writing speeling. It was all in good fun but some people try to make everything an issue. Personally as long as Sage, David or any other admin isn't upset with anything I do I really do not care about the opinion of others.

" In the end, People will judge you anyway.
Don't live your life impressing others.
Live your life impressing yourself."

I think

You might be missing the point.

1) I was agreeing that loose and lose don't have the same meaning in the dictionary I use.
2) Why are you such a spastic trolling troublemaker? Always having something negative to say about someone else's posts. Seems to me like maybe you should keep some of that drama to yourself, because frankly, I'm gagging on it, and I believe some others here are too. Are you drinking Hater~ade for breakfast or what???

“We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love.” Robert Fulghum

smh

1) Who does that even make sense? "I was agreeing that they are different words?" Why? How was that necessary, you need to prove you have a dictionary. Sage is not a fool, it was obviously a typo, what are you playing? Intelligence oneupmanship? Do you think she doesn't realize that they are different words? How pathetic.

2) Do you even know what a spastic is? It is an offensive name for a person with cerebral palsy, so well done you! Throwing around disability slurs, I bet that makes your mother proud!

And you dare call me a hater? I called you out on your stupid post, deal.

Let me break this down for you...

You, Isabella, get butt hurt by everything everybody says, whether it involves you are not. YOU ARE A TROUBLEMAKER. Apostle and I were participating in joking about a typo and you had to make it PERSONAL. If you aren't going to participate here like you want to be here, then WHY ARE YOU HERE? Always cutting people down for seeking someone online and judging and twisting everyone's words. I'm not going to argue with you because basically YOU ARE NOT WORTH MY TIME, but I will kindly ask that if you can not be civil, then do not addresse or respond to any of my responses in this thread, or any other, because quite frankly, I am sick of your poison.

“We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love.” Robert Fulghum

Cry me a river...

LOL at the idea that anything said by strangers on the internet is going to make me 'butt hurt' Sorry but you are not important enough to disrupt my equilibrium (look it up in your dictionary). Boohoo, I spoilt your game.

It is a bit childish to say 'I will not respond to you because you are not worth my time' and then continue to do it. So how about your find another tune to play on your fiddle and give the caps a break!

spelling

This thing is really getting out of control. Sage made a mistake and its understandable since the woman barely has enough time in a day to get any rest or sleep. I really do not think its necessary for all this hate between you two women. If you want to keep discussing this small mistake in a hateful way take it to your emails on here. GEEZ

Nobody

Deserves to be verbally acosted by someone on here. We could all make a typo at any time, and that is true. I didn't mean to hurt anyone's feelings by pointing out the typo. However, every time there is a conversation on here of any kind of importance, eg: the thread about finding someone online, Isabella spouts her venom at anyone whose opinion differs from hers in the slightest. I always thought the purpose of these forums were to discuss out opinions and thoughts without being attacked, and I no longer feel safe to post here because I know there is a bloodthirsty rabid dog waiting to attack my every word. It is ok to debate a poiny, but when you make it personal you have gone too far, and from what I've heard, she has been warned about it in the past, so why is it allowed to continue? One bad apple will spoil an entire bushel of good ones. Just sayin.

“We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love.” Robert Fulghum

Hypocritical much?

Thread has been quiet, I apologised to Frannie and Sage. Who is extending the negativity (and trying to get me thrown off to boot?).

That is just hypocrisy pure and simple.

Btw, I have never mentioned you by name in anything.

Booted ?

Who says I am trying to get you booted, I sure didn't. On the other hand if Sage decides she has had enough of you causing trouble all the time , she will ban you not just boot you, so will David. David has warned you before so I suggest you back off on the arguing every little thing and the big things. This site is not for fighting in any way. If you do not like the people or the posts on here, I suggest you go to a different site and cause problems there.

Confused?

>>Who says I am trying to get you booted,

No one. I wasn't replying to you, I was replying to Countrygirl, that is why my response was beneath hers.

I only mentioned you and Sage to say I apologised to you both for arguing previously. It was Countrygirl who resurrected the thread just to mention me. That is baiting and trolling.

You have

to always have the last word. Yes I said your name in a comment, I also asked you to not address me anymore and you kept it up. You have been warned before. Dob't you rver learn?

“We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love.” Robert Fulghum

ditto

Thank you Frannie I am glad someone Finally pointed out that the purpose of this site is for people to discuss polygamy. The fighting will drive visitors away. Most people have enough to deal with in life without a bunch of drama on here.
" In the end, People will judge you anyway.
Don't live your life impressing others.
Live your life impressing yourself."

Sadly

Sadly the site has lost ALOT of people because of all the arguing caused by not acting like RATIONAL ADULTS who are considerate of others and the rules of this site.

This is why the site my need to be checked more often

Dear All,

While "she who shall not be named" behavior is mildly irritated I believe this thread brings up a larger issue which points to the administration of the site. I do believe this forum is valuable and has the potential to be much more important in the general polygamy movement. However, I get the impression that it is largely on autopilot and that those who created it may not have a lot of time to administrate it. Perhaps that is a misconception but that is what it is beginning to feel like.

My suggestion would be to bring more people on board who could help keep things in line more. Frannie is here a lot of the time and she seems to be someone with an even keel that could help the owners of the site out.

Are the owners of this site the ones that does sisterwives.us?

The site is actually done very well and I believe it could be a good resource for people if it could be managed more effective so that people with personal issues do not foul the waters for everyone else.

Sincerely,

Justin

"Listen, Hear,and Obey on time"

I believe

These forums could be used for so many greater purposes, bit who wants to pose any real questions on here when the first response could be a personal attack by "she who shall not be named".

“We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love.” Robert Fulghum

sisterwives.us

Has nothing to do with this site and the adminis started this site years ago. That was long before big love and sisterwives debuted. It was also before any other sites came along.
" In the end, People will judge you anyway.
Don't live your life impressing others.
Live your life impressing yourself."

Thanks

Thank you Justin for your confidence in me.

It happens a lot

When this site first started the vast majority knew each other from other sites and we all became friends. But as time went by new people began to join and it became a free for all. This site used to be completely open to anyone and everyone but most of us were so relieved when David made it a members only site. There is no way to keep people from getting attacked without shutting site down for everyone. I tend to agree with you it is best not to post most of the time because no post means no attacks. I think all of us have been guilty of taking a post wrong and reacting but it gets out of hand almost every time now it seems. I have to agree with what Justin has said many times we need to lay aside our differences to promote a common cause. If we do not react to those who come seeking to cause trouble they may just fade away. I get accused of being angry many times but those on here I have met in person know I seldom get mad or upset because it is a waste of time and energy to get mad or upset with online names. All we can do is worry about self and keep self in check. If others want to be rude or unfriendly or even go on the attack we can not control that unless you are an admin so let it be like water off a ducks back.

" In the end, People will judge you anyway.
Don't live your life impressing others.
Live your life impressing yourself."

Frannie

I couldn't agree with you more. People stopped posting because it seems no matter what gets posted someone makes a huge issue out of it.

" In the end, People will judge you anyway.
Don't live your life impressing others.
Live your life impressing yourself."

I agree too

if a joke stirs this much drama imagine what an actual opinion what do

“We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love.” Robert Fulghum

yup

I agree

Yes, of course

You are right. Sorry for the intrusion onto the thread. That was very poorly judged of me. Sorry Frannie and Sage.