Updated Aug 31. In truth I dont thin k was the best way of putting that. I am a divorced man so not a first wife. But I am seeking a woman who wants to be the first wife and then add at least one more wife. I am white and 43. I work in the accounting field and I am looking to add other streams of income. Really not sure why i put that in but going with my gut.
I live in Colorado I feel that if the Heavenly Father deems me worthy of a poly marriage then he will provide what I need. What i see in the first wife is a strong woman who will set the tone for any other women who might join us. A woman who understands the value of this marriage and how it will evolve but at the same time can handle another woman in the house. Let's face it it does take a strong woman to enter a relationship knowing that another woman is already there or is hoped to be added. .
A woman who knows who she is and her worth but also understands that the husband needs to be the husband. A good husband makes decisions but also knows that seeking the council of his family allows for all around ownership of the big decisions.
While i am about to turn 44 I and let's face it I am not getting any younger I am trying my best to stay active and lose the extra weight I have gained. I guess I am getting more toned with the dad bod. Yes I have kids from my previous marriage I need a woman who needs me who wants to be my partner as we move forward and is willing to tell me I am lacking here and give directions without trying to wear the pants in the family.
I am struck in my ways which does not mean you cant teach this old dog a new trick it just means that i know what i like and what i dont. And so I will take for you and you will take me for me. I am a dominate man, but I am also man who helps out around the house that likes to cook dinner here and there and will do laundry but dont expect me to lessen your running of the house just because I am willing to do these things. I do not smoke drink or do drugs. I prefer a house without a TV in it but I love movies especially the older ones.
I hope this makes sense to any who may read. Instead of scratching your head and going what?
I hope to hear from someone who is serious and wants to more forward.