Looking for friends and families for support and questions

Hon, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I am in your same position legally; what I find that I have done is to simply not tell folk about Husband's first wife; leaving a string of questions unasked. I do wish that we could have some sort of legislation passed which would help with these legal matters, unfortunately, I am not optimistic that this will occur within my lifetime. I feel for your children; it is difficult enough grieving for their father without having to worry about a society that is less then kind. I do not know how the laws work where you are from, but here I am also saved by the commonness of mistresses. Under the law, I am not seen as a second wife, but as an out-of-wedlock girlfriend, however, this does guarantee my children anything that they are entitled under the law. It does not protect me, but if his name is on that birth certificate, and his genes are in their double-helix, at least they will get their inheritance and any Social Security, Veteran's benefits, ect, which they were entitled to.

I am so sorry for you loss. I could not imagine.. Husband is also 29; and out with friends today; suddenly my heart seems heavy. If either of you ever need someone to talk with, I can only offer my services, but my e-mail is takocos2000@hotmail.com I wish you both the best of luck; and I would like you to know that my prayers and positive energies are being sent your way.

I got to thinking maybe we could take a trip to meet you just to see if we could help with something. We live in south central New York state and don't mind if we could help. Our joint email is therecanonlybe3@gmail.com

WE are a poly family of 2 women 43 and 34 as well as myself a very young 52. We have 3 beautiful girls-16,9, and 6. We love life and our God immensely. We believe the day may be coming for a 3rd women to enter this family. We have much to offer and would enjoy talking with you to see if we are all a match. Who knows until you try. Don't be afraid we are real and understanding people.

Victoria-

Hello and once again sorry for your loss for both of you. We live in NH and would like to help if we can. My e-mail is tophawk_68@yahoo.com or my wife Karen is at: karenelaine2005@gmail.com

Hope to here from either or both of you soon. We live in Hinsdale

Sending our love -

Wayne D

All that is gold does not glitter, All who wander are not lost

Hello Ladies,

I am very sorry to read about your loss. This must be a really difficult time for you. If there is any way I can help, I would be honored to. I do not live very far away. I'm down I Rhode Island... My contact info is, sk_reb@yahoo.com. I hope you are all well...

My husband and i are new to the site and polygamy too in away. I read your story and I so sorry for your lost and I am so glad that you and sisterwife are so close and there for the children. I just hope one day i can find the closeness you too have with my future sister/wife that we have not found. I hope you can find a family that we accept you all in there homes and take you in they will be a lucky family. We would but we live in tx. I hope to hear from u again and to hear how yall are doing.

Hi Victoria,

I'm so very sorry for your, your sister wife and your children's loss. Losing a loved one is always hard and losing a spouse is like losing a piece of oneself. I am so glad that you and your sisterwife are so close and have each other for support.

Starting over is a very difficult thing to do, and for two sisterwives who want to remain together and find a husband or family to join with might be even more difficult, but you shouldn't lose hope. There are a LOT of people out there who are interested in polygamy and who are wanting to find sisterwives. The fact that you two have stuck together even after the loss of your husband should be a loud message to everyone that you have it "right". You didn't go into the relationship for the wrong reasons, you weren't in it for "him". You were and ARE a family who loves and cares for one another and wants to continue doing so. I think that you'll find a husband and/or family that fits with your family and that you can fall in love with and can fall in love with you.

I also think that such a family would be VERY fortunate to have you!

Best Regards,

Donald
(LostOne0069)
www.SisterWives.Net Administrator

Victoria, My thoughts are with you. I just can't imagine the emptiness you both must have. How wonderful that online communities such as this exist to offer you support.

Sam
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Hi Victoria,
That sounds terrible..my condoleances. I hope you and your sister-wife will cope with the situation. Kind regards,
3rd

I can't imagine I can help much, but had to reply and mention that it's great to see that there are other poly families in our neck of the woods. We also live in NH.
I am so sorry for your loss. If you just want to make some contacts, feel free to email you. I'll PM you with my email address.

Dear Victoria,

I'm very sorry to hear about your husband. Life must be very hard when you have hide the way you live. Well I know that talking online can't help all the way with needing someone to talk to but I know that here on this website we are here for one another.
My husband and I are trying to find a wife. We like the life style that polygamy would bring along. If you stick together I'm sure you'll find the right person eventually when you're both ready.