I am living in europe where polygamy is very difficult to live , and virtually no forums are avail to exchange . So i ended up here .But yes its slow here too.
I live with our husband and my sisterwife since 5 years and we have 6 children . We keep it very low profile and don't talk about it , beside some very good friends and our parents no one knows . Officially i am the girlfriend of my husband . But its woryhwhile because we love eachother so much and its so much love we share alltogether . So many monagamus marriages are living in war andsilence together , divorce rateis so high , I am greatful for all i receive and can give in my relation .
Cheers Anita
Wanted to take a moment out here and welcome you to the site. I am glad that your family seems to have found a way to survive in a world where most everyone would like to see it torn apart.
While our site is slow, it is pretty steady. Feel free to post in the forums, start new topics, request new forums. Ideas are appreciated!
Submitted by someoneforus (not verified) on Sun, 11/01/2009 - 10:42.
Looking to futher our family. We are a happy CA couple that have been married for 8+ years and after alot of soul searching we have come to the conclusion that this is the best avenue for us. Looks are not important, but we would like someone that is happy with themselves. We can work on all the other issues as they come.
There are also no realy poly people around me so it is making our search very hard.
Will reply to all, my screen name is my e-mail address it is an aol address.
Looking forward to hearing from you.
The forums have been slow, but yes, we are active. I've had some family and health issues to deal with, as do most folks, so it has been slower around here. Please feel free to post, ask questions, answer others.... check out our information section where there is material to download and mostly.... Welcome Aboard!
Submitted by forrest46 on Mon, 10/26/2009 - 13:52.
I'm new to this site, but not to polygamy. I lived it for over 11 years back in the 80's and 90's. For reasons beyond control it had to end. That's another story. Anyway. it is so nice to finally have a site where like minded poly adults can converse. BUT I'm disappointed in that in the chat room and on here no one evers
seems to get down to the deep seriuous poly problems. Plus, the ones that say they are looking never seem to ask if the people they are chatting with are looking or in a poly relationship? I used to be on the site that was run by Anthony & Jadez and their sisterwife. It had a much more serious subject matter all of the time. I'm not at all wanting to be on a site where we talk about whats for dinner or the latest tv shows (oher than big love), and what the famiy dog just did to the curtians. My feeling so far is no one ever seems to really be setting up to meet or have more than casual chat contact. Yes that is nice, I'm a friendly person too. But I can get this type of conversation anywhere else with non ploygamy friendly people. No deep, serious subjects ever seem to find their way into the chat room. Mine u I still enjoy the very nice people on there. I just was hoping this site would get serious about this way of life.
no one covers their trials and tribulations with poly family money, the non poly relation of a poly family,in general, CHP serivces, the non poly next door people, , poly sex, (not to be a dirty porno type thrill thing), but the natural beauty of clestial sex and love making that can differ from momo sex. No discussions of "other than on here" places to possibly find a sisterwife. Everyone seems to be afraid to keep 'hitting on the members to see if they are seeking or already in poly. So far I
've not
read or viewed any "success"stories of couples actually finding some one special on here. I'm sure.... now that I have stepped up and voiced my feelings I'll be un popular. But geepers creepers folks..... this is a very un popular lifestyle, and I feel we should be much more "gung ho and knowledgeableto spread the word of polygamy. Solidarity is requird to more comfortably get the word out there for Christian polygamy. Truth Bearer is working, well, but as with all that lead, they must be way over the top and intense, or our government will stomp them down. An example...I believe in the right to bear arms, but at the same time the NRA is and HAS to be "too much", Because if it isn't we'll lose it all. Sadly that's the way it is out here in our USA. OK I'm off m soap box. Lets be to the point and get things moving for Christian polygamy. Thanks. Forrest46
While appreciating the fact you are new here we do like to talk about dinner, and the dog, sometimes even sled dogs, and we do discuss plural marriage.
There have been get-togethers organized by our members. We are not a dating, hook up site, and have no desire to be so we are not interested in any "success" stories of couples finding someone here.
This site is maintained as a place for friends, old and new, to chat, and find information. We house a large collection of news articles, and a large collection of difficult to find Mormon Plural Marriage information.
We are also not in to being "over the top" but rather steady.
Certainly we are not the site for everyone, nor do we try to be. Most who are really seeking answers, can find them here.
Submitted by SailorJohn on Fri, 10/30/2009 - 14:15.
Yes this site does seem to be slow and inactive with few who are serious and or willing/able to help. I joined this site because I wanted to learn more about celestial marriage. Celestial marriage is an eternal principal. At this point in my spiritual growth it is one the most precious of eternal principals. I have felt the frustration of not getting quick or sometimes any response to my queries. However, I feel that sometimes that is the Lord's will. Will I continue to search, ponder, study, and seek out the Lord's will and understanding even when it is not easy. I have received some wonderful help advice and spiritual awakening through this site and the patrons here. These principles are sacred and I do not believe that the Lord will share them with just anyone who asks willy nilly. We must be prepared, diligent, modest, faithful, understanding, broken hearted and ready. Then when we knock it will be opened and when we ask it will be fulfilled.
Thanks for your nice comments. I as well believe these principles are sacred and have eternal consequences. To that end, we've posted information here to help people on the path. It is not that i desire the main site to be inactive, but rather, i have a busy off line life and this site sometimes falls through the cracks. As we move in to fall, it is much easier to keep up with - at least that is my goal.
Cheers!
SiteMod
Submitted by someoneforus (not verified) on Fri, 10/30/2009 - 21:26.
Looking to futher our family. We are a happy couple that have been married for 8+ years and after alot of soul searching we have come to the conclusion that this is the best avenue for us. Looks are not important, but we would like someone that is happy
We would love to chat with you, Someoneforus@aol.com
I think I'll be more active here as I'm looking into polygamy or polyamory though my wife doesn't seem to be interested. She thinks it all about sex when the fact of the matter is that it's about companionship, mutual assistance and love. Love that can be better shared in the home since someone will be available more often and I do not believe in day care.
Some talk of how it would be better if it was two guys and one woman but seriously, I find that a bit grows and I won't go into the dirty details.
I can see a financial advantage to 2 guys and one woman but, yea, maybe it's just me but I don't find that appealing considering a guy usually showers before laying with the other woman (person preference I think).
Anyhow, sorry about that, back on topic here......
So my thoughts are that while I'm working my wife will have a companion, someone to help her, someone she can confide in when I'm not home, someone that she can relate to because the fact of the matter is that friends have their own opinion and don't know what is going on behind closed doors. They have their own lives and they live it as they see fit.
As it is right now we have people coming into the home and helping my wife with our daughter that is disabled so that my wife can get errands done, chores done and maybe, MAYBE get some rest. However this is being paid for by the government due to the fact that our daughter is disabled which means that if the worker decides to quit then we have to find someone else that is caring and compassionate and because we are both so stinking busy we are unable to spend any time together unless it's in front of the boob tube. I also understand that with having a sister wife around I would be spending time with her too but I don't see it as being a problem. When I think about it I find it comforting to think about being able to ask the sister wife if she would be willing to watch the kids for a bit while the wife and I go out and relax for an hour or two every now and then and then doing the same with the sister wife.
Granted it's not all fun and games, heck that's life, I understand, I'm married, 3 kids, run my own business, maintain everything from the kitchen sink to the shingles on the roof, from the concrete to the paint on the doors of our rigs. I'm a do it yourself'r and have saved tons of money and learned LOTs by being so.
I'm also not saying that having another mouth to feed would be easy but if it's someone you care about then it's not really something you think about.
Anyhow, I've got tons on my mind and have been thinking about this for quite some time and it seems that no one wants to listen to the words coming out of my mouth with an open mind so I thought I'd type it here. Maybe someone will read this and correct me on some things or agree with what I'm saying and all is welcome but bottom line is..... I didn't say all that is on my mind otherwise this would be a book so here is my .01cent.
I am new to this site ...
I am living in europe where polygamy is very difficult to live , and virtually no forums are avail to exchange . So i ended up here .But yes its slow here too.
I live with our husband and my sisterwife since 5 years and we have 6 children . We keep it very low profile and don't talk about it , beside some very good friends and our parents no one knows . Officially i am the girlfriend of my husband . But its woryhwhile because we love eachother so much and its so much love we share alltogether . So many monagamus marriages are living in war andsilence together , divorce rateis so high , I am greatful for all i receive and can give in my relation .
Cheers Anita
Welcome Anita
Hope you find good information and friends here.
Economic nightmare has many distracted.
Welcome
Anita
Wanted to take a moment out here and welcome you to the site. I am glad that your family seems to have found a way to survive in a world where most everyone would like to see it torn apart.
While our site is slow, it is pretty steady. Feel free to post in the forums, start new topics, request new forums. Ideas are appreciated!
Cheers!
SiteMod
looking for perfect sisterwife
Looking to futher our family. We are a happy CA couple that have been married for 8+ years and after alot of soul searching we have come to the conclusion that this is the best avenue for us. Looks are not important, but we would like someone that is happy with themselves. We can work on all the other issues as they come.
There are also no realy poly people around me so it is making our search very hard.
Will reply to all, my screen name is my e-mail address it is an aol address.
Looking forward to hearing from you.
Welcome
Crystal
The forums have been slow, but yes, we are active. I've had some family and health issues to deal with, as do most folks, so it has been slower around here. Please feel free to post, ask questions, answer others.... check out our information section where there is material to download and mostly.... Welcome Aboard!
SiteMod
??? why not more?"
I'm new to this site, but not to polygamy. I lived it for over 11 years back in the 80's and 90's. For reasons beyond control it had to end. That's another story. Anyway. it is so nice to finally have a site where like minded poly adults can converse. BUT I'm disappointed in that in the chat room and on here no one evers
seems to get down to the deep seriuous poly problems. Plus, the ones that say they are looking never seem to ask if the people they are chatting with are looking or in a poly relationship? I used to be on the site that was run by Anthony & Jadez and their sisterwife. It had a much more serious subject matter all of the time. I'm not at all wanting to be on a site where we talk about whats for dinner or the latest tv shows (oher than big love), and what the famiy dog just did to the curtians. My feeling so far is no one ever seems to really be setting up to meet or have more than casual chat contact. Yes that is nice, I'm a friendly person too. But I can get this type of conversation anywhere else with non ploygamy friendly people. No deep, serious subjects ever seem to find their way into the chat room. Mine u I still enjoy the very nice people on there. I just was hoping this site would get serious about this way of life.
no one covers their trials and tribulations with poly family money, the non poly relation of a poly family,in general, CHP serivces, the non poly next door people, , poly sex, (not to be a dirty porno type thrill thing), but the natural beauty of clestial sex and love making that can differ from momo sex. No discussions of "other than on here" places to possibly find a sisterwife. Everyone seems to be afraid to keep 'hitting on the members to see if they are seeking or already in poly. So far I
've not
read or viewed any "success"stories of couples actually finding some one special on here. I'm sure.... now that I have stepped up and voiced my feelings I'll be un popular. But geepers creepers folks..... this is a very un popular lifestyle, and I feel we should be much more "gung ho and knowledgeableto spread the word of polygamy. Solidarity is requird to more comfortably get the word out there for Christian polygamy. Truth Bearer is working, well, but as with all that lead, they must be way over the top and intense, or our government will stomp them down. An example...I believe in the right to bear arms, but at the same time the NRA is and HAS to be "too much", Because if it isn't we'll lose it all. Sadly that's the way it is out here in our USA. OK I'm off m soap box. Lets be to the point and get things moving for Christian polygamy. Thanks. Forrest46
This Site
Forrest
While appreciating the fact you are new here we do like to talk about dinner, and the dog, sometimes even sled dogs, and we do discuss plural marriage.
There have been get-togethers organized by our members. We are not a dating, hook up site, and have no desire to be so we are not interested in any "success" stories of couples finding someone here.
This site is maintained as a place for friends, old and new, to chat, and find information. We house a large collection of news articles, and a large collection of difficult to find Mormon Plural Marriage information.
We are also not in to being "over the top" but rather steady.
Certainly we are not the site for everyone, nor do we try to be. Most who are really seeking answers, can find them here.
a pearl of great price
Yes this site does seem to be slow and inactive with few who are serious and or willing/able to help. I joined this site because I wanted to learn more about celestial marriage. Celestial marriage is an eternal principal. At this point in my spiritual growth it is one the most precious of eternal principals. I have felt the frustration of not getting quick or sometimes any response to my queries. However, I feel that sometimes that is the Lord's will. Will I continue to search, ponder, study, and seek out the Lord's will and understanding even when it is not easy. I have received some wonderful help advice and spiritual awakening through this site and the patrons here. These principles are sacred and I do not believe that the Lord will share them with just anyone who asks willy nilly. We must be prepared, diligent, modest, faithful, understanding, broken hearted and ready. Then when we knock it will be opened and when we ask it will be fulfilled.
Thanks
John
Thanks for your nice comments. I as well believe these principles are sacred and have eternal consequences. To that end, we've posted information here to help people on the path. It is not that i desire the main site to be inactive, but rather, i have a busy off line life and this site sometimes falls through the cracks. As we move in to fall, it is much easier to keep up with - at least that is my goal.
Cheers!
SiteMod
Occasionally - Well -
Occasionally - Well - actually, it is fairly active, but we are rarely on these days.
Welcome aboard, just the same!
You can take my worst mistakes
And use them for excuses
You can try to realize this vessel
By itself, is worthless
yep
I am active here.
Hi
Looking to futher our family. We are a happy couple that have been married for 8+ years and after alot of soul searching we have come to the conclusion that this is the best avenue for us. Looks are not important, but we would like someone that is happy
We would love to chat with you,
Someoneforus@aol.com
I think I'll be more active
I think I'll be more active here as I'm looking into polygamy or polyamory though my wife doesn't seem to be interested. She thinks it all about sex when the fact of the matter is that it's about companionship, mutual assistance and love. Love that can be better shared in the home since someone will be available more often and I do not believe in day care.
Some talk of how it would be better if it was two guys and one woman but seriously, I find that a bit grows and I won't go into the dirty details.
I can see a financial advantage to 2 guys and one woman but, yea, maybe it's just me but I don't find that appealing considering a guy usually showers before laying with the other woman (person preference I think).
Anyhow, sorry about that, back on topic here......
So my thoughts are that while I'm working my wife will have a companion, someone to help her, someone she can confide in when I'm not home, someone that she can relate to because the fact of the matter is that friends have their own opinion and don't know what is going on behind closed doors. They have their own lives and they live it as they see fit.
As it is right now we have people coming into the home and helping my wife with our daughter that is disabled so that my wife can get errands done, chores done and maybe, MAYBE get some rest. However this is being paid for by the government due to the fact that our daughter is disabled which means that if the worker decides to quit then we have to find someone else that is caring and compassionate and because we are both so stinking busy we are unable to spend any time together unless it's in front of the boob tube. I also understand that with having a sister wife around I would be spending time with her too but I don't see it as being a problem. When I think about it I find it comforting to think about being able to ask the sister wife if she would be willing to watch the kids for a bit while the wife and I go out and relax for an hour or two every now and then and then doing the same with the sister wife.
Granted it's not all fun and games, heck that's life, I understand, I'm married, 3 kids, run my own business, maintain everything from the kitchen sink to the shingles on the roof, from the concrete to the paint on the doors of our rigs. I'm a do it yourself'r and have saved tons of money and learned LOTs by being so.
I'm also not saying that having another mouth to feed would be easy but if it's someone you care about then it's not really something you think about.
Anyhow, I've got tons on my mind and have been thinking about this for quite some time and it seems that no one wants to listen to the words coming out of my mouth with an open mind so I thought I'd type it here. Maybe someone will read this and correct me on some things or agree with what I'm saying and all is welcome but bottom line is..... I didn't say all that is on my mind otherwise this would be a book so here is my .01cent.