Polygamy Views and Lifestyle
Submitted by Braxton on Mon, 11/02/2009 - 17:00.
Hi, I am a college student. My name is Braxton. I am needing some thought and views about why men should be polygamist. I am arguing that it is about sexual and emotional need. Please send me your views and opinions. This is strictly confidential and between us. You can respond to me either through this or through my personal email. Jadoremoose@gmail.com.
Thank you!!!
Barrett
Barrett
"but I don't think 'objectivity' is likely to happen at this point"
I'm going to have to agree. You sound like you're looking for dirt, not facts!
Vanessa
Pssst, Braxton.. Errr...
Pssst, Braxton.. Errr... Barrett....
I am gonna give you a little bitty secret.
The reason why men are polygamist is absolutely that we are ------------. (fill in the blank)
Ok, actually, I am kind of giving you a hard time. Thing is, you appear to have some strong biases, and have already made your mind up about the issue. What on earth do you need facts for? Write whatever you will, we won't change your mind. Sorry if I come across as mean there, but I don't think 'objectivity' is likely to happen at this point.
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You can take my worst mistakes
And use them for excuses
You can try to realize this vessel
By itself, is worthless
the fact?
I heard - a white male said " most men will not get enough with one woman " emotionally and sexually.
Look what happened to old David Letterman!. Men can't live without women but women can strongly live and be independent without men around. I see in my countries Muslim single mums stay single for the rest of their lives, divorcees or widows. And we conventional Muslims here strongly adhere to the rules that - adultery and sex outside marriage is unlawful in the eyes of God. And we love following God's rule.
In Islam polygamy is an option. Not compulsory. And the most men can marry is limited to 4, and yet most polygamyst here marry only two.
Polygamy works to spark love, after separated for 2 nights, love sparks again. The less I meet my husband ( we alternate for two nights, two nights with my other sister wife )less arguments I have between me and my husband. During the times when he is not around usually I sleep early to get the rest that I need so much ( i work during the day ) other times I have the remote control of the TV all by myself ( not having to watch ESPN or Star sports when he is around ) or watch horror and war movies that he likes so much. Or at times I browse the net without worrying whether he needs a massage, sex or just want to have conversations.
Over the weekends usually hubby, sister wife, me and our kids have lunch together, we go vacations together also.
Polygamy is allowed in islam and in the country's law. But then again, many Muslims men and women are against it and only a minority practise it in my country.
For most women here, polygamy is considered as their enemy. One reason I love watching Big Love is the characters are so different from the general characters of my people here. then again, I always feel Big Love is a fantasy. But I think deep inside that Mormons are very religious and nice people when in comes to polygamy?. Men who practise polygamy and suceeded are geniuses, women who survived polygamy like in the movie are the kindest of women...
( pardon my english )