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We're looking for our first sister wife

Hello.

We too are of looking of course for a loving woman to join our household. Trouble is, We've really got very little idea where to look. It seems like every site we go to is for swingers, Or you never get a single response from what really seems to be mostly bots or spam artist.

So what we're looking for is advise from those of us who've looked and found. or others who might have insight. Is there a good place or way to look for a woman open to this idea? Is there a way to find a loving wife outside of what seems to be the usual swinger site or bar scene?

We thank you all in advance for any help you offer. We hope to hear from you soon. And thanks you so much for this site.

Thank you all for your

Thank you all for your advise and support. We're hopeful something will soon come of our efforts.

Finding a sisterwife

While I must admit that the internet is a great place to find people who share a certain idea or like/dislike for something, I think the best way to find a poly-friendly woman is right in your own back yard. The new show "Sisterwives" has been a wonderful boon for those of us in the search. It has brought the idea of polygamy into the mainstream and in a positive light. Now, while this is still out of the norm, there are a LOT of people out there who are sympathetic to down-right eager. Many of them were looking for something out of the norm, but just didn't know what. Until now.
Now the closest I ever came to finding a sisterwife was when my ex met a lady at work that she really seemed to connect with. A single mom of one, she seriously wanted to find a husband, but was very dismayed at what she found. My wife brought-up the idea of polygamy and the lady was interested and curious. Curious enough to show-up at my house unannounced to meet me. Moral of the story is this: Ladies, if you want a sisterwife, get to know the women around you. Really, get to know them. Are they seriously looking for a husband and can't find what they want? Do they comment on how they admire you and your family? Do they tell you that you have a great husband? These are great opportunities for you to step-up. Ask them if they have seen the show, "Sisterwives"? "What did they think?" What did you think? Do you think it could work? Ect. If she is eager to talk, talk. If not, don't and don't push the topic. If she is supportive of the idea, take it easy. But invite her to come around more often. Offer to watch her kids on occasion. Take her out to dinner with all of you. Ask her over for movie night. Above all, be patient and listen. Her kids might actually be the ones to open the door for you. "I wish (your husband) was my Daddy." Something to that effect. Anyway, you get the picture.
Finally, make sure that you have the kind of relationship that someone else would want to join. 30 kids living in the desert might not attract a lot of prospects, but happy, clean, hardworking, tender and supportive family would.
Good luck and God bless

Get involved

Try to get involved in you're community and get to know people in general. The more people you know and the more people you meet the more likely you meet the right person.

We met a good poly friendly girl on website a couple years back and went on some dates, but at this point we don't seem right for each other. We made a good freind though. Websites can work, though for the year they have been dry and spamfilled.

Well guys. Lot of time has

Well guys. Lot of time has passed. We've met lots of single females. Seems though everytime either they drift away to something or some one new. Or they just up and decide the life isn't for them.

Hopefully the right someone will come along. And the hard lessons we've had to learn won't be in vein. We're happy to hear from you guys though and seeing that others are meetin with success here and on other boards continues to give us hope.

Are you involved in a

Are you involved in a group?

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