Dealing, emotionally, with polygamy

The problem isn't with polygyny, the problem is with the exclusivity enforced on a site that's, on the surface, inclusive of all belief systems. Have you ever even met a non-religious person who thinks that polygyny is good but polyandry is bad? It's like hosting a "secular" relationship discussion/support forum that descriminates against gays. You can call it "secular" all you want, but the reality is that the only people who are actually going to share your values are either religious or homophobes. (And I admit there are probably some non-religious misogynists who think that men should have multiple partners but if a woman has more than one male partner she's a whore.)

The bottom line is that I'm bitter because I'm in a tough situation, I'm emotionally bruised and reaching out for help, I'm looking for the support of like-minded individuals who won't judge me, and I came to this site because by all outward indications I thought I'd find that here, but as soon as I posted I was (very politely, I have to admit) told to shut up by the administration because this site is only for polygyny, and other "alternative relationships" are not welcome for discussion or support here.

I admit I did not read the home page. I didn't come here to read articles or essays, informative as they may be, I came for discussion, to meet people, to find support. I have no problem with you hosting a website which descriminates against relationships you think are morally incorrect. I have a problem with you doing so and then dressing it up as all-inclusive. I also admit that I misread the Wikipedia link (the last word was "polygyny," and I read it as "polygamy" because the font was small on my screen, and besides that I wasn't even familiar with the term "polygyny," so it was easy for me to miss), but I still think it could have been made more clear. I clarified the point myself by editing the link description (and I did so in a neutral and unbiased manner), so hopefully that will at least partially correct the issue for future searchers who are in my shoes (though it appears to me now that they are even less popular shoes than I had previously thought).

I guess in reality I have little reason to be angry with you. I'm just pissed off because I'm trying to find a welcoming community that can provide me with some sort of support, and the more I look the more I feel totally alone in this. When I found out this website wasn't what I initially thought (and hoped) it was, it just further dismayed me and made me feel hopelessly alone. I guess in a way I'm pissed off at the world for being so judgmental and closed-minded. I thought I'd found a different environment here, but I was wrong; it's just a different brand of closed-mindedness. Whatever; since I clearly don't belong here I shall take my leave and stop littering your message boards with comments and ideas for which it was not intended.