New members

Hello to all those who visit the site. I am Wayne and have been married to Karen for awhile and now are looking at expanding our family. We have children that are grown and the last one is almost gone, We are looking to start over again as they say but Karen isn't able to have children now. I am very warm and pleasant... I really don't have anyone as an enemy as far as I know. I am a little worried about going online but feel it is a way to get a little more information and also maybe a little luck and guidance to begin our new journey. I can be reached at- tophawk_68@yahoo.com or here online. I am not up to speed on the im stuff soooo.... >:

All that is gold does not glitter, All who wander are not lost

I and my wife are new tothe site hello to all we are muslim and are looking for a co-wife(sister wife)even if you are not muslim but is interested in learning about islam.we wish toexpand our family,we recently purchased a farm house

John and I are looking for a sister-wife--but feel like we're groping in the dark as we are trying to figure this out pretty much on our own. Am so glad I found this forum and PluralWife's blog and PrincipleVoices.org.

Good morning. My name is Victoria, although I prefer Vic or Tori, not Vicky. I'm from northern Cali. I'm (obviously) new here. I am not a polygamist, or come from a polygamist family, I don't know what I am doing here, but I know that, I would just like to get a better understanding. I don't mean to offend anyone. Thank you.

Rich and Angela in WI.

Hello! I am here to understand polygamy. I am married to a wonderful man. I can sort of imagine having a sister wife but not sure how it would work. I hear there are blessings of polygamy. I would like to understand that more.

There have been a lot of new members in the last few weeks. Those of us here at 4thefamily would like to send out a big Welcome, Hullo, stick around, kick your shoes off and sit a spell, join in the chat (busier in the evenings) and make some new friends. Nice to see so many new folks joining in!

I agree CDE but also those seeking a sisterwife or to join a family should put some contact info. If you allow others to contact you they dont your email address unless you respond from it. To not put anyway to contact you is like gasing your car for a trip and then parking on the side of the road and wondering why you never arrive where you wish to go.
I like your Christ
I do not like your Christians
They are so unlike your Christ
Ghandi

Hi my name is Kimberlee my husbands name is Mike. We are both 33y/o and have decided that a polygamy lifestyle is for us, for many reasons. We do have 3 children together....three of the most beautiful little monsters ever. I happy to be here and hope to get to everyone better and learn more about the polygamy lifestyle.

Everyone I have talked to so far....THANK YOU...you all have been very helpful.

Yes, that would be nice to hear more about the people on here, why don't you start since you don't have anything about you on your profile?

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True Christian male seeks single girl or mom with daughters to build my family. I'm an Ambassador for Christ teaching the truth of the Bible to others. www.GirlWanted.info Looking for Sister/Wife try www.GalsandGuys.net or www.GalsandGuys.mobi Free Service

Texan Gentleman and film producer. I am looking to start a family.

Hi everyone! I am new to the site, and new to the poly life! We are a cool, attractive couple from Austin TX looking to expand our family. Seems like there's a whole lot of starter families and not enough girls to go around! LoL. Who ever thought going poly would be so hard!

We're perfect for this life, however. We already have kids and know the ups and downs of married life, having been through it all. Going poly was actually my idea, not my husbands. Don't get me wrong, though, I'm not bisexual. It just made sense to me that in our culture, we are obsessed with monogamy, yet it doesn't seem to be working for anyone, and people are throwing away perfectly good relationships for no reason other than the fact that they are unwilling to recognize that at least half the men out there still have polygamous desires. It's not like deviancy or anything, it is genetically and scientifically explainable and happens all throughout the animal kingdom. It also occurred to me that these men will have a hard time intimately emotionally connecting to ANY woman within a monogamous relationship because he is forced by the nature of the union to deny his polygamous urges and therefore must hide those feelings from his wife. This is no way to live for either partner and encourages a breakdown of intimacy. I know once I mentioned this to my husband, I FELT the walls come down and realized how much of his life he had spent hiding his emotions and suppressing his feelings in order to spare mine.

So that's us in a nutshell. It's sad that we didn't come to this conclusion earlier because I have several close girlfriends who I really think now would have been great additions to my family, but who are already married now. So now I'm in a position of trying to meet a new sister-wife for our family.

About Us: We don't smoke cigarettes, but we are 420 friendly if that's what you like. We occasionally drink, but we're not heavy drinkers by any means. We are of the Christian faith, but we are tolerant of others. We never push our beliefs (even though they are strong for us) off on other people, so we don't really get along very well with people who insist on doing so. By and by, we are both pretty laid back and we don't believe anything too extremist or weird as in we're not going poly to get into heaven or anything like that. :-)

Hubby is a really laid back, easy-going and well-liked guy. We aren't hermits even though I am somewhat of a homebody since I had our youngest son a year ago. I am a sensitive, sometimes moody, talkative person who cares deeply about loyalty and respect. Not to make myself sound like a stick-in-the-mud because I love to laugh and have fun as much as the next person!

We are very interested, but also hands-off style parents. We don't always do everything right, but we love our kids and give them the space they need to express themselves and grow into who they are, not who we want them to be. Not to say we don't discipline. Because we are very lenient with our kids, when we do lay down the law, it is non-negotiable and there are consequences for disobedience.

Other than that, we just really like to enjoy life and want to include someone in our family who loves the same and who is open to having a really awesome husband and also a sister-wife. I will tell you that as far as having a dad that enjoys his kids and helps with their raising, you would have to look far to find one as good as this one. He's no Superman, and won't get any awards any time soon, but for those of you girls who really want a man who will LOVE your future kids, not just do all the "right" things, you may have found your situation. We're not Leave it to Beaver, but we do have a happy home.

Finally, and I'm sorry to make this so long, if you are looking to greatly improve your financial situation, we are not the right people. We aren't poor or anything, but we do believe in forgoing some things (new cars, fancy house) in order to be able to do the fun things we want like season tickets to Six Flags or being able to afford music lessons. So if you want FUN, you'll find it. If you want STABILITY, there are probably way more and better people out there that can offer that.

I'll leave off for now since I've made such a long introduction. I hope to meet some of you soon and find out more about the life!

Namaste,
Brandy